The exiting pleasure of having sex in the car is as amazing as anything you can ever think of, the thrill of suspense and wondering what could possibly go wrong. Well, it’s a fact that there are possible a million things that could possibly go wrong, which for starters is; whether having sex in the car is legal or not?
You are in luck; this article aims to guide you on all you need to know before you harness those thoughts of having sex in the car. So shall we dive right in?
Perhaps you just had a rather wonderful night out with your date, maybe you are just looking for some alone time far from the noise and distractions at home. Whichever may be your reason, finding yourself having sex in a car can be a rather exhilarating situation.
A lot of things are bound to run through your mind especially if you are doing this for the first time in open space.
What Is Car Sex?
Before moving forward, let first understand what car sex is.
Car sex is simply any sex act that takes place in a car. There are a number of reasons why people may try it: a lack of privacy where they live, a fetish, or curiosity. Car sex can involve a number of complicating factors, such as constricted space and a lack of privacy. However, it can also be safe and fun.
Is It Illegal to Have Sex in A Car?
According to laid down laws, it is illegal to have sex in any public open space. However, it is important to highlight that it is not always illegal having sex in your car.
According to the penal code, it is illegal to solicit anybody to take part in dissolute conduct in public view. The dissolute view simply implies touching another person’s buttocks, genitals or breasts.
You have to engage in this activity with a clear intent to gratify or arouse yourself in a sexual manner. It could also be applicable if you intend to offend a person that may be watching your actions.
Condition for It to Become Illegal to Have Sex in A Car
The condition for your having sex in your car to be a crime is that it must be in a public or a place that is open to the view of the public. Also, it will be considered public if you should have known that you were engaged in sexual intercourse in the full glare of someone who may pick offense in your actions.
You may want to ask what qualifies as public space. Public space is simply anywhere that is both open and accessible to whoever desires to go there. Hence, such places include but are not limited to beaches, parks, and streets. It can, however, be illegal for you to engage in sexual intercourse inside your car even if you are in your home as far as you are in the full view of people.
It, therefore, suffices to say that if you parked in your driveway, it can be said that you are in the full view of the public. This may, however, be different if your driveway is hidden behind the fence.
Things to Note Before having Sex in the Car
1. Cars Are for Quickies
If you find the perfect place to park, and have nowhere else to be, you might luck out and have plenty of time for an hour or two of foreplay, followed by extended periods of great sex on the backseat. But typically, cars are for quickies, so it’s best to go into the experience with speed in mind.
This works well if you’re looking to hook up with your partner on your lunch break, or before heading back home to your parent’s house after a date. But speed is also helpful when you don’t want to get caught, which is something you’ll definitely want to avoid.
2. Sex Positions are Limited
If movies were to be believed, then you’d be having sex in the car as well as on top of it. But in reality, there are really only a few options, and it’ll still take a bit of finagling to make them work.
For passenger seat action, you’ll need to recline the seat a bit and hope you don’t ram your leg into the side of the door or that annoying thing that locks the seat belt in place. From here, the best sex position to try is the Cowgirl position, either regular or reverse.
For backseat action, you can lay down a bit more, but unless you’re on the shorter side, then one of you will probably be straddling the other while sitting not quite upright; there’s just no space for lying down.
3. Leg Cramps Are Inevitable
Any position where you can’t fully stretch out your legs is liable to cramp up something. And car sex is pretty much the exact recipe for that. That’s why, if you know that you’ll be having sex in the car, you might want to do a few stretches first; yoga stretches, ideally, because they open the hips — and even give your libido a nice healthy kick into action.
4. You Definitely Want to Crack Open A Window
OK, let’s think about Titanic again, since it has the most iconic car sex scene. Remember when Rose’s hand dragged down the steamy window? It gets hot inside a car when you’re getting it on, which of course adds to the sexiness of it all, as you and your partner fog things up and get drenched together.
But the problem with steamy windows is that they’re a dead giveaway that something is going on inside the car. And, if there happens to be a nosey passerby, they very well might call the fuzz on you. A (literally) steamy car sex session may seem worth it in the moment — but no one wants public indecency on their permanent record.
5. Leather Seats is a BIG NO
Let’s put it this way: Rugburns pale in comparison to the feeling of ripping your moist and sticky skin off a leather or vinyl car seat, so keep this in mind as you shimmy around your sedan. Leather also doesn’t allow for much movement, which tends to be necessary for good sex.
So, this is where that whole thing you learned in Girl Scouts about keeping a blanket in the trunk of your car at all times will come in handy. Lay it down to spare your thighs and back from sticking. No blanket? Then maybe consider keeping your clothes on while doing the deed.
6. If You Rely on The Radio, The Mood Could Be Killed
If you’re the type who likes to put music on in the background during your most intimate moments, double-check that your aux cord works.
Because, while the radio is always an option, it really can kill the mood when you’re looking for slow jams, but the only song coming through is Elton John’s “Circle of Life,” or an ad for a local insurance company. No good.
Ideally, you’ll have a playlist chockfull of your favorite songs, so you won’t need to rely on the radio. But double check in any case.
7. You Really Need to Park Someplace Super Private
Not to put a damper on your car sex fantasies, but you definitely need to choose a place to park that’s very well hidden, and, ideally, to do so at night.
Why? Well, other than the possible embarrassment factor of getting caught, having sex in public is against the law. Plus, it’s not cool to potentially expose the third party to your sex life, since they can’t consent to it.
Although the laws differ from state to state, getting caught having sex in public is usually considered a misdemeanor, and can include being regarded as a lewd act or indecent exposure.
In some cases, especially if kids happen to stumble across your tryst, it may even result in you having to register as a sex offender. Basically, it’s not worth the five minutes it would take to drive somewhere more secluded.
8. You’re Totally Going to Smell Like Sex Right Afterward
Sex has a pretty potent smell, and that smell lingers. If you don’t crack a window or air yourselves out, you’re going to stink like sex for a bit, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing.
But depending on what you have planned after your romp in the car, it could be awkward for those who have to deal with smelling you. Just something to be mindful of.
You’re also going to get sweaty, not only because of the close quarters but also due to the effort it takes to successfully hook up in a car. That’s why it might be a good idea to keep a few toiletries in the glove compartment, like face wipes and hand sanitizer — and maybe even a clean shirt — so you can freshen up afterward.
When you’re a teenager, everything is fun and new. This isn’t to say that having sex in a car is going to be a total drag and/or a waste of your time, but it’s going to be a different kind of fun.
9. It Might Not Be as Fun As When You Were A Teenager
So definitely don’t go into it expecting to feel like you’re 17 all over again. In fact, if anything, once you get in that back seat and realize you can’t move like you used to, you’ll probably feel older than younger ― which is still fun! Just in a completely different way.
If you have been apprehended on charges of dissolute conduct, you will be facing charges of a misdemeanor. If you are however convicted, you could be looking at half a year in jail. You also face the possibility of facing probation which may include community service, therapy, and counseling. You will also face abstinence from alcohol and drugs.
Dissolute misconduct is one of the crimes that won’t require you to register as a sex offender. With all the above fact, I am sure you still wondering if having sex in the car is a good idea.
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